Not every day is the same – LOH # 232 Contest (Eng/Spn)
Greetings to all, in this beautiful Ladies of Hive Community. Heeding the call of this contest number 232, today I return to participate. Here I share this week's invitation. Thank you @cautiva-30 for these great questions!
This time I will answer the second question of the contest: There are states of mind that arise from our way of facing what happens to us, either with resistance or acceptance. How do you face the difficulties in life? Identify your mood here
For a few years now, I've been working from the premise that NOT ALL DAYS ARE THE SAME. This phrase, this saying, works for me like a mantra, and it has allowed me to overcome difficulties, absences, and hostility, since I know that nothing lasts forever and that everything will pass, which helps me when things get tough, and it also allows me to focus when things are going really well, and it has worked for me.
My nature is to be explosive; however, I've molded this (and it's been necessary), because the most difficult thing to achieve in life, is to master and control oneself, so as to be able to navigate the situations and circumstances that arise as best as possible. Part of this change and self-control has come from my husband, who is a very thoughtful and patient person. He has taught me and shown me the importance of thinking before acting or speaking, which has allowed me to calm my temper. Living for almost two decades alongside someone undoubtedly influences you.
I'm currently facing a difficult situation, but I don't regret experiencing it; and this is because I couldn't tolerate any more abuse. Something's happening: People tend to confuse diplomacy with weakness, and so I had to separate the two concepts, setting very clear and well-defined boundaries. What's more, I'm so convinced of what I have to do that until I see the end, I won't give up; until I've exhausted all avenues, I won't stand still, even if I have to invest a lot of time and resources. Until I reach the end, I won't stop doing everything in my power to achieve justice.
So, I can say that I face life's difficulties head-on, with great determination and perseverance. I may not always make the smartest or most convenient decisions, but I will always be guided by my values, my principles, and even when I may feel fear, uncertainty, or hopelessness, these are feelings I overcome so I can do what's necessary and find solutions to the problems that may arise.
Saludos a todos en esta hermosa Comunidad de Ladies of Hive. Atendiendo la convocatoria de este concurso número 232, hoy vuelvo a participar. Aquí les comparto la invitación de esta semana. Gracias @cautiva-30 por estas estupendas preguntas!
En esta ocasión responderé la segunda pregunta del concurso: Hay estados de ánimo que surgen de nuestra forma de afrontar lo que nos sucede, ya sea con resistencia o con aceptación. ¿Cómo afrontas las dificultades de la vida? Identifica tu estado de ánimo aquí.
Desde hace unos años, parto de la premisa de que NO TODOS LOS DÍAS SON IGUALES. Esta frase, este dicho, funciona para mí como un mantra, y esto me ha permitido superar dificultades, ausencias y hostilidad, ya que sé que nada es eterno y que todo pasará, lo cual me ayuda cuando las cosas se ponen difíciles, y también me permite centrarme cuando las cosas están muy buenas, y me ha funcionado.
Mi naturaleza es ser explosiva; sin embargo, esto lo he ido moldeando, (y ha sido necesario), pues lo más difícil de lograr en la vida es dominarse y controlarse a sí mismo, para así poder surfear lo mejor posible las situaciones y circunstancias que se presenten. Parte de este cambio y de este autodominio ha venido de mi esposo, quien es una persona muy reflexiva y paciente, y me ha enseñado y me ha mostrado la importancia de pensar antes de actuar o de hablar, lo que me ha permitido apaciguar mi carácter. Vivir casi dos décadas al lado de alguien sin duda alguna te influye.
En la actualidad estoy afrontando una difícil situación, pero no me arrepiento de estar experimentándola; y esto se debe a que ya yo no podía permitir más abusos. Ocurre algo: La gente tiende a confundir la diplomacia con la debilidad y, pues, me tocó deslindar los dos conceptos, poniendo límites muy claros y muy bien puestos. Es más, estoy tan convencida de lo que tengo que hacer, que hasta que no le vea el final, no voy a desistir, hasta que no agote todas las instancias, no me voy a quedar quieta, así tenga que invertir mucho tiempo y recursos. Hasta que yo no llegue al final, no dejaré de hacer todo lo que esté a mi alcance para tener justicia.
Así pues, que puedo decir que afronto las dificultades de la vida frontalmente, con mucha determinación y con mucha perseverancia. Quizás no siempre tome las decisiones más inteligentes o más convenientes para mí, pero, siempre me guiaré por mis valores, por mis principios y, aún cuando yo pueda sentir temor, incertidumbre o desesperanza, esos son sentimientos que solapo, para poder hacer lo necesario y encontrar la solución a los problemas que se puedan presentar.
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It appears you are progressing well on your path dear Sister.
NVC is a good way to increase connections with our (true) self & others, and to help with dispute resolution, as i commented upon here: https://ecency.com/curation/@acidyo/another-quick-video-about-curation-and-vote-selling#@atma.love/re-acidyo-202549t201647360z
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Your ability to face difficulties with determination and perseverance, especially based on your values and principles, is very valuable, even overcoming those emotions such as fear, will certainly make you find solutions to the problems that may arise, thank you for sharing your experiences friend,
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🤗 Don't give up on your values and principles @sirenahippie
When I face difficulties, I first think about how important it is. Sometimes it is very easy to get out of it and I quickly focus on the solution. Although I usually try to solve these problems myself, I do not hesitate to ask my family or girlfriend for extra help when I need it.